Do I Need a Lawyer If We Don’t Have Kids?

A Practical Guide to Mediation for Divorcing Without the Courtroom Drama

Ending a relationship is never easy, but when no children are involved—or your children are already grown—you may wonder if you need a lawyer. While skipping legal assistance might seem like a way to save time and money, the reality is that uncoupling involves more than just parting ways.

Without an explicit agreement, disputes over property, assets, debts, and spousal support can quickly become complicated. Instead of going straight to court, many couples are now choosing mediation,a practical and cost-effective way to navigate separation without unnecessary conflict.

What Is Mediation and How Can It Help?

Mediation is a structured, confidential process where a neutral third party (the mediator) helps separating couples reach fair and mutually beneficial agreements. It is particularly useful for couples without minor children, as the focus shifts to dividing assets, debts, and financial responsibilities without litigation.

•  Saves Time & Money – Court battles can be expensive and take months (or even years) to resolve. Mediation is often faster and more affordable, allowing you to move forward with your life.
• Reduces Stress & Conflict – Instead of turning your breakup into a legal battle, mediation encourages open communication and cooperation, ensuring both parties feel heard and respected.
•  Flexible & Confidential – Unlike court proceedings, which are public, mediation is private. You control the timeline and terms rather than having a judge decide for you.
•  Customised Agreements – Every couple’s financial situation is different. Mediation allows for tailored solutions that meet your specific needs, whether dividing property, handling debts or discussing spousal support.

When Should You Consider Mediation?

If you and your partner:

• Own property or significant assets that need to be divided
• Have joint financial responsibilities, like mortgages or loans
• Want to avoid court battles and legal fees
• Are you looking for an amicable and cooperative way to separate

Even if you and your ex-partner are on good terms, having an explicit written agreement can help prevent future misunderstandings. Mediation ensures that both parties leave with self-created agreement that protects their rights and financial interests.

Why Choose Mediation with Lawren E.I. Wowk?

At Grey Wowk Spencer LLP, our mediation services, led by Lawren E.I. Wowk, provide expert legal guidance tailored for couples looking to separate without unnecessary litigation. Lawren is an experienced family law mediator with over 18 years of experience, specialising in helping couples reach fair and lasting agreements.